How Pornography Affects Your Sex Life

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Well, while we are in second decade of the 21st century, we still live in the times when parents rarely speak with their children about sex. It comes as no surprise that we turn to porn for education, as even when your parents are able to talk to you about sex, they may speak about sex in general, but they won’t touch upon positions and certain tricks. Still, besides the educating effect porn can affect your sex life in negative ways. Firstly, you face the fact that real sex is not that simple as you in porn clips, secondly, you may start suffering from being unable to perform a sexual act.

According to the survey made by Esquire, 43% of men that were watching porn with a sexy girl suffered from being unable to maintain erection. Those were men in their twenties and thirties, the age for which problems like that are uncommon. The most interesting part, those men were porn-addicts.

How Porn Effects You

Scientists proved that porn work as arousing stimulus that activates the reward mechanisms in our brain, which activates before and when we have sex. The difference lies in that porn activates those mechanisms at such a high level that we perceive it to be more pleasurable than the reality. But the more porn we watch, the more stimuli we need to get the same level of excitement. It makes no surprise that after starting with simple porn videos we slowly move towards more hardcore pornography. Thus begins a psychological addiction, which can interfere with our sex lives.

Top Negative Effects of Pornography

You Can’t Get Aroused by Your Partner

When you spend a lot of your time watching porn, you are becoming a kind of Pavlov’s dog. Your brain starts associating sexual excitement only with porn. Thus, you can’t get the erection when you are with your partner without watching porn beforehand, all you need to fantasize about porn you’ve watched in order to maintain erection while having sex with your partner.

Pornography Kills Your Libido

The more porn you watch, the weaker your libido gets. As a result, you partner can’t turn you on anymore, because your sexual drive, which people normally have for sex is transferred elsewhere.

Pornography Makes You Lazy

Watching too much porn leads to you being sexually lazy. You forget about foreplay, because everyone is already aroused in porn. When it comes to real sex it turns out that a little work must be done in order to turn on you or your partner.

Pornography Makes You Sexually Selfish

What porn is about? Right, it is about satisfying your needs. Pornography rarely teaches you about satisfying someone else. If you are dating Russian women, it won’t be enough to watch porn in order to shake your sexual life up. As a result, you’ll never becoming a great lover if your knowledge of sex comes solely from pornography. By the way, Amurdate.com may serve you as a guide. They have hundreds of articles and thousands of tips on the matter of sex and relationships.

Sex Seems to You Like a Lot of Work

Once again we are coming to the fact that pornography is only about satisfying your needs. People who often watch porn doesn’t have sex that often as you might have thought. Because pornography makes real sex seem a boring process that requires a lot of work for you. As a result you feel much comfortable with your PC than with your partner.

 

 

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